A conversation with a best friend today deepened my perspective and gave me a sense of peace. Citing the C.S. Lewis quote, “True Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it’s thinking of yourself less,” he reminded me that the service towards others is soothing and healing, and that the experience of suffering leads to knowledge and unintended, positive outcomes.

As he spoke, I visualized the self as an open jar, and the more compassion and service to others contained within it, the less room there is for fear and doubt. As the conversation concluded, he shared a verse near to his heart, which touched mine:
“Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to your life? Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest? “Consider how the wild flowers grow. They do not labor or spin.” I am grateful to have such a best friend.
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